It's Complicated (S2): WK 3 - WED
on November 5th, 2025
2 Samuel 11:11-15
Uriah replied, “The Ark and the armies of Israel and Judah are living in tents, and Joab
and my master’s men are camping in the open fields. How could I go home to wine
and dine and sleep with my wife? I swear that I would never do such a thing.”
“Well, stay here today,” David told him, “and tomorrow you may return to the army.” So
Uriah stayed in Jerusalem that day and the next. Then David invited him to dinner
and got him drunk. But even then he couldn’t get Uriah to go home to his wife. Again
he slept at the palace entrance with the king’s palace guard.
So the next morning David wrote a letter to Joab and gave it to Uriah to deliver. The letter
instructed Joab, “Station Uriah on the front lines where the battle is fiercest. Then
pull back so that he will be killed.”
Psalm 32:6-7
Therefore let everyone who is godly pray to you
while you may be found;
surely when the mighty waters rise,
they will not reach him.
You are my hiding place;
you will protect me from trouble
and surround me with songs of deliverance.
Every once in a while, the painful consequences of our failures are easily avoided, cleverly sidestepped, or simply don’t happen. However, as we feel the floodwaters of our poor decisions rise around us, we often turn to more deceptive schemes in an effort to escape. First, we try to create opportunities for our guilt to sink into the shadows. Eventually, we move from passive strategies to actively manipulating our surroundings, hoping to change the circumstances... Read More
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It's Complicated (S2): WK 3 - TUE
on November 4th, 2025
2 Samuel 11:6-11
Then David sent word to Joab: “Send me Uriah the Hittite.” So Joab sent him to David.
When Uriah arrived, David asked him how Joab and the army were getting along and
how the war was progressing. Then he told Uriah, “Go on home and relax.” David
even sent a gift to Uriah after he had left the palace. But Uriah didn’t go home. He
slept that night at the palace entrance with the king’s palace guard. When David
heard that Uriah had not gone home, he summoned him and asked, “What’s the
matter? Why didn’t you go home last night after being away for so long?” Uriah
replied, “The Ark and the armies of Israel and Judah are living in tents, and Joab and
my master’s men are camping in the open fields. How could I go home to wine and
dine and sleep with my wife? I swear that I would never do such a thing.”
Psalm 32:3-5
When I kept silent,
my bones wasted away
through my groaning all day long.
For day and night
your hand was heavy upon me;
my strength was sapped
as in the heat of summer. Selah
Then I acknowledged my sin to you
and did not cover up my iniquity.
I said, “I will confess
my transgressions to the LORD”—
and you forgave
the guilt of my sin.
A simple lack of motivation or indulgence in excuses allows David to nap while his men are at war. He has shown the heart of a warrior in the past. So he’s entitled to sit this one out, right? With this one mistake, momentum builds, and lustful eyes lead to a coercive affair with Bathsheba. Ah-oh, she’s pregnant. Missing his appointment with the army was a mistake. The affair with Bathsheba was a sin. Now David is so deep into it that he can’t easily back out. The snare has fully tightened around his ankle. It won’t be long before the truth comes out. David must act quickly to control the story and protect his reputation. So he sends for Uriah... Read More
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It's Complicated (S2): WK 3 - MON
on November 3rd, 2025
2 Samuel 11:1-5
In the spring of the year, when kings normally go out to war, David sent Joab and the
Israelite army to fight the Ammonites. They destroyed the Ammonite army and laid
siege to the city of Rabbah. However, David stayed behind in Jerusalem.
Late one afternoon, after his midday rest, David got out of bed and was walking on the
roof of the palace. As he looked out over the city, he noticed a woman of unusual
beauty taking a bath. He sent someone to find out who she was, and he was told,
“She is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite.” Then
David sent messengers to get her; and when she came to the palace, he slept with
her. She had just completed the purification rites after having her menstrual period.
Then she returned home. Later, when Bathsheba discovered that she was pregnant,
she sent David a message, saying, “I’m pregnant.”
Psalm 32:1-2
Blessed is he
whose transgressions are forgiven,
whose sins are covered.
Blessed is the man
whose sin the LORD does not count against him
and in whose spirit is no deceit.
Over the next two weeks, we will study 2 Samuel 11 and 12, focusing on the story of King David, Bathsheba, Uriah, and Nathan. While reading the verses in chronological order, we will examine two themes one at a time. This week, I invite you to reflect on David the murderer. Next week, we will explore David the adulterer. I hope this approach helps clarify why we focus on certain parts of the text now and save others for next week... Read More
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It's Complicated (S2): WK 2 - GROUP GUIDE
on November 1st, 2025
The following is a guide to help facilitate discussion between you and the person you’re studying with or with your Connect Group. Feel free to add, subtract, or change questions to fit the conversation, and pray for the Spirit to lead in all things... Read More
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It's Complicated (S2): WK 2 - FRI
on October 31st, 2025
2 Samuel 6:16-23
But as the Ark of the LORD entered the City of David, Michal, the daughter of Saul, looked
down from her window. When she saw King David leaping and dancing before the
LORD, she was filled with contempt for him.
They brought the Ark of the LORD and set it in its place inside the special tent David had
prepared for it. And David sacrificed burnt offerings and peace offerings to the
LORD. When he had finished his sacrifices, David blessed the people in the name of
the LORD of Heaven’s Armies. Then he gave to every Israelite man and woman in
the crowd a loaf of bread, a cake of dates, and a cake of raisins. Then all the people
returned to their homes.
When David returned home to bless his own family, Michal, the daughter of Saul, came out
to meet him. She said in disgust, “How distinguished the king of Israel looked today,
shamelessly exposing himself to the servant girls like any vulgar person might do”
David retorted to Michal, “I was dancing before the LORD, who chose me above your
father and all his family He appointed me as the leader of Israel, the people of the
LORD, so I celebrate before the LORD. Yes, and I am willing to look even more
foolish than this, even to be humiliated in my own eyes But those servant girls you
mentioned will indeed think I am distinguished” So Michal, the daughter of Saul,
remained childless throughout her entire life.
Contempt is such a strong word. As the Ark of the Covenant and the dancing procession approach the city center, the loud throng passes the palace. Michal, David’s wife, gathers at a window to observe the parade. Suddenly, her jaw drops when she catches sight of her husband, barely recognizable in the crowd. He has stripped off the robes that identify his royalty. She sees him twirl and jump, twisting and shouting. Has he lost his mind? How humiliating. Michal feels nothing but contempt... Read More
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It's Complicated (S2): WK 2 - THU
on October 30th, 2025
1 Chronicles 15:1-2; 13
David now built several buildings for himself in the City of David. He also prepared a place
for the Ark of God and set up a special tent for it. Then he commanded, “No one
except the Levites may carry the Ark of God. The LORD has chosen them to carry the
Ark of the LORD and to serve him forever.”
[Then David said to the priests…] Because you Levites did not carry the Ark the first time,
the anger of the LORD our God burst out against us. We failed to ask God how to
move it properly.”
2 Samuel 6:12-15
Then King David was told, “The LORD has blessed Obed-edom’s household and
everything he has because of the Ark of God.” So David went there and brought the
Ark of God from the house of Obed-edom to the City of David with a great
celebration. After the men who were carrying the Ark of the LORD had gone six
steps, David sacrificed a bull and a fattened calf. And David danced before
the LORD with all his might, wearing a priestly garment. So David and all the people
of Israel brought up the Ark of the LORD with shouts of joy and the blowing of
rams’ horns.
The tragic death of Uzzah stopped the joyful procession heading for Jerusalem. Feeling angry and afraid, David refused to continue and left the Ark in the home of Obed-Edom, a Levite. In his confusion, David must have turned to the Scriptures to find out what had gone wrong. There, he discovered the detailed instructions for how the Ark should be transported and rededicated himself to restore corporate worship of Yahweh... Read More
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